Use humor. Most people like to laugh. Poking good-natured fun at yourself lightens the conversation, as does a funny joke or story. Just make certain to be sensitive; don’t tell off-color or racial...

Use humor. Most people like to laugh. Poking good-natured fun at yourself lightens the conversation, as does a funny joke or story. Just make certain to be sensitive; don’t tell off-color or racial jokes or stories. 6. Focus on the benefits. Making friends helps you develop your sense of community and belonging. It can ease the loneliness many students feel.