Sharing sexual fantasies. If you’re married or sexually active in a secure relationship, share some of your sexual fantasies with your partner. Such sharing is usually more helpful when it is mutual....

Sharing sexual fantasies. If you’re married or sexually active in a secure relationship, share some of your sexual fantasies with your partner. Such sharing is usually more helpful when it is mutual. It may be wise to begin with mild fantasies that can help desensitize fears and embarrassment and enable you to judge the impact of such sharing on your partner as well as yourself. It’s also best to avoid sharing fantasies that would shock your partner or threaten the relationship.