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Please ONLY USE these references!!

• Goleman, D. (2005). Intimate Enemies, Schooling the Emotions.Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ(pp. 129-147, 261-287). Bantam Books.


• This American Life, Episode 261, “The Sanctity of Marriage,” Act 1:What Really Happens in Marriage?
  (23 minutes)Transcript for Episode 261

1. Describe an argument you were involved in where things went downhill.Please don't reveal the identity of the other person, and only reveal as much of the argument as you are comfortable sharing. The important thing is that you give the reader a sense of the tone of the argument, and describe it in enough detail that the reader can understand what was going on.

2. Use Goleman's chapter on Intimate Enemies, the

This American Life

audio excerpt, and the "Lecture" on Practicing Emotional Intelligence to explain how (and why) the argument could have been more skilfully conducted (on both sides).