In an outpatient addictions group, a recovering client said that before her treatment, her husband drank on social occasions. “Now he drinks at home, from the time he comes home from work until he...

In an outpatient addictions group, a recovering client said that before her treatment, her husband drank on social occasions. “Now he drinks at home, from the time he comes home from work until he goes to bed. He says that he doesn't like me anymore and that I expect him to do more work on the house and yard. I use to ignore that stuff. I don't know what to do.” The nurse would make the following comments in which order of priority from first to last?