Give an example from your own life, from the life of someone you know well, or from fi ction to illustrate painful inner confl icts and one of the three neurotic “solutions” (moving toward, against,...

Give an example from your own life, from the life of someone you know well, or from fi ction to illustrate painful inner confl icts and one of the three neurotic “solutions” (moving toward, against, or away from people). Explain how the idealized image in this case produces a vicious circle where matters keep getting worse, and why there is a confl ict between the idealized image and this person’s real self and wishes. Summarize the key points of this case in a diagram similar to Figure 5.1