As Melissa tells you about the details of her parents’ divorce, you notice your body tightening. You attempt to relax but find it difficult. Her story parallels many of the same events in your own...

As Melissa tells you about the details of her parents’ divorce, you notice your body tightening. You attempt to relax but find it difficult. Her story parallels many of the same events in your own parents’ divorce, and you are aware that you feel angry at her father. You have learned the importance of being nonjudgmental, and you question whether your unresolved issues might interfere with the effectiveness of the counseling process.

1. What do you need to do to benefit Melissa, as well as future clients?