A former secretary tells you that she would like to be a surrogate mother. She is a friend of yours and tells you this over coffee. You know of a couple who wants a baby, but the wife is unwilling to...

A former secretary tells you that she would like to be a surrogate mother. She is a friend of yours and tells you this over coffee. You know of a couple who wants a baby, but the wife is unwilling to carry the child because of her own health. How do you handle this situation?