1. Transgressions: Actions that are violations of taken-for-granted rules of relationships, such as having an affair, being disloyal, sharing private information with other people, and being deceitful...

1. Transgressions: Actions that are violations of taken-for-granted rules of relationships, such as having an affair, being disloyal, sharing private information with other people, and being deceitful

2. Acts of devotion: Actions that imply that the person really views the partner and/or the relationship as being special, such as going “above and beyond the call of duty” to help that individual through a difficult time